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I started my journey of blogging in 2003 — mostly to capture what I called “transitioning life’s journey”.
In 2023 I took a 3 year break from blogging, but have decided to return to it. I hope you enjoy.
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Anxiety Reimagined: Could Anxiety Be a Friend in Your Life to Help You Grow?
“If God had not meant for me to be anxious, then He would have called me to some other vocation that didn’t require weekly preaching, an activity that was a constant reminder of my ongoing struggle with stuttering. What if, instead, God wanted me to be anxious? What is He was wanting me to lean […]
Stuck in an Anxiety Rut
“Looking back at our families of origin and remembering these details can be a scary process for many people. Sometimes we are not quite sure what we will discover or remember, and that can leave us feeling anxious. That is normal. When we look back, and really try to sort through our relationships and experiences […]
Welcoming the Uncertainty in Your Life That Anxiety Often Creates
“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.” (Scott Peck, The Road […]
Embracing Our Anxiety
I firmly believe as I have stated in many places, that our anxiety is a great opportunity for our growth. One of the first chapters in my book is about this idea of “embracing anxiety.” I know that anxiety can come in many forms and whatever you are experiencing, I want to acknowledge that, and […]
My Journey with Anxiety — What is Your Journey?
I have had a long journey with anxiety. And I can honestly say that I’m thankful for the anxiety that I have wrestled with. I don’t think I could, or would have said that while in the midst of my journey. But at times I can step back from it, gain some perspective — and […]
The Adventure of Anxiety…
“Learning to know anxiety is an adventure which every man has to affront if he would not go to perdition either by not having known anxiety or by sinking under it. He therefore who has leaned rightly to be in anxiety has learned the most important thing.” —Søren Kierkegaard in 1844
Are You Feeling Anxious or Depressed?
Since Mental Health month is this month, I want to encourage you in two ways: If you find yourself feeling anxious or depressed, I really encourage you to reach out and get the help that you need. If you know someone who is feeling anxious or depressed, I encourage you to reach out to that […]
Talking About Mental Health in the Church
Unless you have either experienced anxiety and depression yourself, or have sat present with those who have, then it’s pretty easy for us to make trite comments or give cliche answers to those around us. This is probably the single reason why I wrote The Anxious Christian: Can God Use Your Anxiety for Good?. I […]
What is your anxiety cutting you off from in your life?
When I was 11 years old and began to experience traumatic grief from the death of my mom from breast cancer after a five-year battle — my anxiety manifested itself in the form of stuttering. And stuttering, or my fear of making a fool of myself in front of my classmates cut me off from […]
Four possibilities that your anxiety could be a symptom of?
Did you know that anxiety is the most common mental illness in the United States for people age 18 and over? Or that affects 40 million adults (18% of the US population)? Did you know that only 1/3 of people who struggle with anxiety actually get help? And that women are 2x as likely to […]
Be the ‘Life-Giving’ Man That You and Others Deserve
Are you a ‘life-giving’ man? That is a question that I am often asked. It’s a term that I began to talk about in my last book, What it Means to be a Man. But I’ve begun to explore it more fully in the last 6 months and it is the focus of my online […]
Video: “What it Means to be a Man” — Chapter 1: The Making of Men
This video introduction to my book, What it Means to be a Man: God’s Design for Us in a World Full of Extremes, explores the four basic male archetypes that are most often found in literature and culture.
Freedom: Lessons from 2 Years of Being Debt Free
My wife and I are celebrating two years of being debt free. It has been an incredible journey of ups and downs, but I want to share with you some of the ways we went about it as well as the lessons we have learned in the process.
Putting Down Our Masks: Living Authentically So Others Can See God in Our Lives
When we put down our masks that we hide behind, we are able to live an authentic life where our true self emerges. And when we live out of this true self we are examples that allow others to see God in our midst…in the midst of our ups and downs…achievements and failures…good and bad times.
Making Friends With Your Anxiety
Today I wrote a guest post on author Ally Vesterfelt’s blog, “What if You And Your Anxiety Were…Friends?”
“What it Means to be a Man” — Officially Out Today
Today is the official launch of my new book, What it Means to be a Man: God’s Design for Us in a World Full of Extremes.
“What it Means to be a Man”: A Primer for Men on Manhood and an Insightful Book for Women
The book What it Means to be a Man is essentially a primer for men on manhood, but it also the perfect reading companion for adolescent boys and women as you will see below.
“What it Means to be a Man” Book Trailer
Check out the book trailer for my new book, What it Means to be a Man: God’s Design for Us in a World Full of Extremes.
Transforming Your Anxiety: Final Thoughts and Resources
I’m a huge believer in the good that can come out of our anxiety. I believe that we too often dismiss anxiety as something bad. We are too quick to try and get over it, or bury it, or pretend it doesn’t exist…all things that can lead to high levels of unhealthy anxiety, depression and […]
Transforming Your Anxiety: Anxiety in Relationships
“When we can stand face-to-face with another human being in all of our anxiety, and we don’t have to try to run or hide from it, that is the beginning of a true relational connection.” One of the areas of life that we often tend to experience the most anxiety is in relationships. And what […]

