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March 03, 2006
I have a question?....I am wondering about this
I have been wondering about something for a little while now, and I am wondering what your thoughts are on this. If you have some, let me know. Or it could be that no one else is wondering about this.
Recently I have been interviewing at some clinical counseling, family service type sites, as I am beginning to do counseling work as part of my requirments for my masters in Marital and Family Therapy. And one of the things that I have noticed about the interviews I was on, was this one underlying assumption or thought.
That as a counselor in training, and as a licensed therapist one day as well, it was important for me to know that I would always be a life long learner, and that I would need to be that in this profession. That one could not master counseling or therapy because we are dealing with people...unique people, always changing, always different, always different issues, etc. I like that aspect of therapy and counseling, because I enjoy learning. I enjoy this process. The interviewers made it pretty clear that if I thought I would have all the answers and wouldn't be a humble learner, then this was not the profession for me.
And as I have talked with my friends about this idea, we have noticed that other fields such as technology, business, medicine, etc., are always evolving as well. There are learning curves and for one to advance in the field, one must be a life long learner. They must be willing to be open to new ideas, whether they eventually work or prove false. They must test theories. They must experiment, and be willing to make mistakes. It would almost be ludicrous to hire someone if they thought they had all the answers and didn't need to learn anymore, or if they thought they were the expert and there was no room for mistakes or errors.
You don't want that type of person coming out of med school who says they have all the answers. You don't want that type of person coming into your computer company who feels they have nothing else to learn.
But why is it that when it comes to ministry and theology we seem to believe different? There are certain denominations, theological camps, etc. that expect one to be the bearer of all information. To have all the answers. To not have an answer, and especially the right one is looked on as a flaw, or inadequate. The underlying assumption then is this....that when it comes to theology, we are not life long learners, that we don't need to grow or evolve, or even be allowed to change our theological stance if we come to believe different. Why is that?
After reading many books and blogs and having many friends in minsitry, it seems to me that churches are often weary of hiring someone who would say to them: "You know. I'm a life long learner in this field of theology and the task of ministry. I don't have all the answers? But I want to grow and learn."
Is theology, the study of God so easy to master? Are we not life-long learners? Do we at 25, 26 and older think that we can possibly have this Christian life, and the thoughts of the mind of God mastered when we are handed our M. Div. degree? Do we think that God is easier to figure out than technology and medicine and psychology, etc.?
This does not mean that we don't hold convictions. This does not mean everything is up for grabs. But rather, what I am wondering is why certain theological camps, churches, seminaries, etc. claim absolute certainity on every issue concerning God as if they have Him figured out with absolute clarity.....when in other fields we would never do that? If any field of study should be more humble, and willing to learn, and grow and be challenged and make mistakes and be life-long learners, shouldn't it be the field of theology?
I am becoming more and more convinced that there is great fear in many churches and theologians, etc. if they can't come up with the right answer. The fear of not having the right answer is huge. That is also why I am more and more convinced at why many young Christians are being drawn to pastors and thinkers and theologians who they hear say at times, "I don't know. I don't have the answer for that question. But I will be praying, studying, etc. about that issue." That type of not knowing is much of the authenticity that many Christians are looking for. It is also this fear of not knowing that shuts down much of the dialogue between different theological strains, etc... This is not about which questions we need to have answers to and which ones we don't....it's about the posture of sometimes not knowing everything, and being on a life long learning curve in pursuit of God.
Many might say what about, 1 Peter 3:15,
15But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,
Are there not times when the reason and the answer we give for our hope is not always about having the right answer, but about sharing what Christ has done in our lives? Has not much of our apologetic attempts been without respect and gentleness?
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Posted by rhett at March 3, 2006 10:55 AM
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Rhett,
I'll take the bait. But first I want to make sure that I'm not arguing from a polarized point of view. Obviously questioning and learning is essential in ministry and theology. I am wary of people who do not believe so. So I am not arguing from an extreme of knowing all the answers.
But I can give you my perspective on the wariness of churches (and my own wariness) at people who use questions to avoid stances. We live in an age where relativism is acceptable and absolutes or universalisms are not. But I do believe our faith is one of universal application and has some absolute things to say. I believe our scripture similarly gives us footing to say something where relativism can only question or posit opinion. I believe our God is a person who can be known (again, please don't polarize that soundbite) and followed with real footsteps. I am thus wary of people who claim to be forever learners without getting on the road. I've run into enough relativistic Christianity that denies some of the core universalisms in the name of questioning and "progress" that I become weary and wonder if the prophetic is dead. I wonder if the questioner is happy to languish in their question lest they find themselves in oppositions to the norms of a culture of subjective answers and universal questions.
Now my answer takes you off of the trajectory of your question. I agree with you that there is an unholy desire for complete understanding within our faith. I can only understand this as driven by fear and a desire to not have to be in relationship with a relational God but rather follow a stringent dictate (read Pharisees). In this, the steps God leads us on are rarely further-seeing into the future than today's needs. And for these, an open expectation of guidance is the only proper response to the indwelling Spirit. Question and learn and pray for wisdom should be every Christian's duty. But stand on that wisdom when given.
I hope that makes sense of the wariness of part of the church.
In Christ,
ace
Posted by: Andrew at March 3, 2006 12:09 PM
Rhett...this is our current situation in the church explained so well by your post. We are so arrogant about our theology but our lives do not show for it! In other words, it is what Brian McClaren calls "ortho-praxy" verses orthodoxy. We have convictions and hold on to truth, but that does not mean we know everything. There is so much to learn. I think the "gentleness and respect" line in that verse is ignored by a lot of Christian circles. We are so mean as believers. Thanks for these thoughts posted here!
Posted by: Rich at March 3, 2006 12:18 PM
Dude. amazing post man!! Such a great point and something that i hadn't ever looked at or thought about in that light before.
its got me chewing on a bunch of questions:
What are the motives behind looking as if we have all the answers?? pride??
As a pastor do you feel the pressure to have an answer??
As churches and seminaries are interviewing students or potential employees are they are coming in with the mind set of "we are right and have it figured out" now lets see where you sit with respect to our "right" answers?? If your round peg fits into our round hole, then you got the job. Otherwise if your answers don't match ours....peace.
good post man!
Posted by: Mike haswell at March 3, 2006 03:27 PM
Hi again Rhett,
I know for a fact that there are those Christians out there who think that they are right about some topics and they are completely misguided and hurtful in their treatment of other Christians. I know that they love the Lord but it was demonstrated to me by some that their approach was hateful, spiteful, mean spirited and damaging. I know this because I was the recipient. As I said though, I also know that they love our Lord Jesus. They just did not have all the answers that they thought that they had. There was no respect and no gentleness but they thought that they were right. I am learning the lessons of forgiveness, humility, brokenness, and some others that I cannot even comprehend enough to express right now so I will learn and move on to the next chastening lesson. The only reason I bring all this up is that I agree with you that sometimes our attempts fail. I am sure that in my walk I may have some moments, probably many of them, of total blindness even while thinking that I was confident of the answers. While we can never compromise on Biblical truth because we have a perfect textbook and teacher but we must never forget that love your neighbor as yourself was of the utmost importance to God. Having the right answer or the wrong answer for that matter will not be of any use to our Lord if the answer is not shared from a heart of love. This for me is the only motivation for sharing what our Lord Jesus has done in my life. When I share my testimony with an unbeliever there aren�t any trite Christian phrases, no formulas to witnessing, not even a plan to witness. The Holy Spirit just streams the words from my mouth and there is always love. If I have a plan to go out there and �do the job� there are answers that sound cold and harsh. The more I think I know the more I realize that I haven�t got a clue. Just my two cents worth.
Posted by: standing_firm at March 3, 2006 05:19 PM
Andrew,
Very good comment...well stated. I agree with what you are saying. I do agree that there are some who use questions to avoid any stance taking, on any issue, as you have stated. And that was not what I was getting at, though posting a blog can leave a lot of options for one to choose what to look at.
My concern is with those who take stances on issues, but believe there is never any option to question, or grow or learn, but their faith is dictated by whether or not they possess the right answer in every situation. But on the flipside of that, as you have noted, are those who take no stands at all, ever....and that is a whole other issue.
One can take stands and have faith, and believe, but yet still journey, grow, learn, etc. God's encounter with those in scripture always illuminated something new about who He was...something that they had previously thought they had wrapped up, but God challenged their understanding....I am thinking of the Patriarchs....the disciples, etc.
rhett
Posted by: Rhett Smith at March 4, 2006 10:41 AM
I am reminded of Galatians since our pastor is speaking through that book. Remember in Galatians the story of Peter being confronted by Paul for giving in to the Judiazers? Paul had conviction and stood pretty tough, but Peter, an actual witness and friend of Jesus, needed to be corrected.
So, indeed. If a person like Peter needed reminding on an essential such as justification, than we obviously must be open to where we may be in need of humility and learning. Also, Paul was fighting an "essential" doctrinal issue. So, there you go.
Posted by: Rich at March 4, 2006 11:57 AM
You wrote: "You know. I'm a life long learner in this field of theology and the task of ministry. I don't have all the answers? But I want to grow and learn."
The pastors I have learned the most from have this attitude. I call my pastor a Shepherd-teacher-servant in the ever learning school of theology. He knows he isn't God and has much to learn, but he also stands firm without wavering on truths that should never be compromised.
Jesus'last prayer included a plea for unity. Unity defined: Unity in truth without compromising truth to be unified.
Posted by: Lisa at March 4, 2006 01:50 PM
Rhett,
Good points. And I like your using of 1 Peter 3:15. I wrote a post about this, and how the way the passage is usually used is pretty far from what Peter says in the context of his letter.
http://commongroundsonline.typepad.com/common_grounds_online/2005/08/glenn_lucke_wha_1.html
Posted by: Glenn at March 4, 2006 05:29 PM
I'm with you. Finding a middle ground where humility and seeking are open to revelation and repentance - that is a good thing. As usual, Rhett, I find you to be authentic and wise... a tough combo to find in the church business.
In Christ,
ace
Posted by: Andrew at March 4, 2006 05:40 PM
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